Alvin S. Rogers, Jr. had just gotten out of the Navy and
instead of going home to Trenton, NJ to become a doctor as was expected of him,
he wanted to do something different with his life. He had seen the world while in the Navy and
gotten out from under, what I believe, was a domineering mother. He stopped in Miami to make his own way and
took a job as a doorman at the same hotel where Margie was working, and history,
as they say, was made. As soon as their
paths crossed, Al was smitten with the young beauty and as the story has been
told in this family, could not leave her alone.
In June 1949, Margie was sent back to New York with her young charge in
an effort to keep her away from Alvin.
Not be deterred, Alvin, along with his sister jumped in a car and
drove all the way to New York to woo his true love. There are a lot more details to this story
that I will not bore you with, but in the end they were wed in New York,
NY on 10 Jun 1949 and their first son was born nine months later in Miami in March 1950. Another son would follow in 1951, a daughter in
1952.
On 11 May 1953, while eight months pregnant with her fourth
child, my husband, Margie petitioned the U.S. District Court in Miami for Naturalization
and was granted the same. On the
Petition she listed her current address: 11501 NE 11 Pl, Miami, Fla; she listed
her date of birth and place of birth (Nassau, Bahamas), her height, 5’1’, her weight 100
pounds. She listed her husband as Alvin
Stackhouse Rogers (click here for a look at his ancestry chart) and their marriage date as 10 Jun 1949. She also listed her three children, their
names and dates of birth.
She stated she was 21 years of age and formerly a British citizen. The picture here is
the one that was used on the Department of Justice's Certificate of
Naturalization. I have to assume this
picture was taken at or about this time so she would have been about 21 in this
picture and was most likely pregnant with my husband at that time. So few pictures exist in my husband’s family
so this makes it all the more special to us.
Margie and Alvin went on to have three more children for a total of seven. There are many more stories I could tell, and I'm sure there were some happy times but the marriage had insurmountable issues. Alvin's mother inserted herself into their life and many problems ensued. Unfortunately their marriage ended in divorce in March 1971. She later married Joseph Eaglebarger (1929 - 1986). After her second husband's death she lived for a number of years in Margate, FL and then in Georgia with one of her sons. She also traveled around the country and to Nassau visiting family on a regular basis. Margie's family was extremely important to her and nothing made her more happy than to have them gathered around her. After a short illness she died 26 Aug 2011 at the age of 80 in Plantation, FL at our home. In the short time before she died she shared with us many stories we had never heard before and we felt honored and privileged to have had that time to talk to her and hear her stories. She left behind six living children, thirteen living grandchildren, a number of great-grandchildren as well as many family members in the Bahamas. She was preceded in death by her parents, her husband, one son and one grandson.
